Hospice of Santa Cruz County - How We Help and What to Expect from Hospice
Every day, Hospice of Santa Cruz County accompanies individuals and families as you enter this new territory and help guide you every step of the way.
We recognize that each individual and family we serve is unique. When you choose hospice care, our team will meet with you to understand your goals and concerns so that we can provide care that is tailored to your needs.
Many families have shared their stories of how we’ve helped in their journey. One that speaks to the heart is from Mike and Laura. We invite you to learn about their experience with hospice care by watching the video below.
Did hospice make a difference? Yes, in several ways. Most importantly, they paved the way for me to give Laura my full attention in her final days. I don’t think I can describe how important that became. She was able to pass in the place she felt the most comfortable: at home.
Having the Conversation
We understand it can be challenging to navigate daily life when you or your loved one has a serious illness. It’s easy to put off conversations about palliative and hospice care because they are difficult to have. You may be surprised to find your loved one has been meaning to have the talk, too. Here are suggestions for starting the conversation earlier and addressing concerns that come up.
“I don’t want my husband to feel that I’m giving up on him. Won’t talking about hospice give that impression?”
This is a common concern. It’s important to remember that when patients choose hospice care, they’re not giving up – they’re gaining support and choices. We can meet with your loved one in person to talk about their health needs, learn their personal feelings and desires, and introduce the concept of palliative and hospice care. These conversations usually go more smoothly than what families envisioned and are often welcomed by the patient.
“The doctor hasn’t said anything to us about hospice care. Should we bring it up?”
Yes. Many doctors do not bring up hospice care because they don’t want to discourage a patient’s hope. They may actually be relieved if you bring up the topic. If you feel hospice may be a good option – now or in the future – let your doctor know how you feel. If you are hesitant to talk to your doctor directly, we can help with that communication.
“My grandmother is in the hospital and we’re wondering if hospice could help. How do we find out more?”
Hospital social workers and discharge planners are knowledgeable about the many services provided by Hospice of Santa Cruz County. They can provide a referral to our program. If you haven’t already had direct contact with a social worker, ask your doctor, a nurse, or chaplain to put you in touch with one.